Masturbation is wonderful for everyone; especially for women. For some reason male masturbation is talked a bit more in general, but recently that taboo is breaking apart and female masturbation is gaining more widespread attention.
A little self-loving doesn’t hurt anybody. It’s actually a great way to learn more about your body. If you are in a relationship, it will help you know and understand what exactly gets you off and drives you crazy. Masturbation can even help you have better orgasms and if you have any problems getting an orgasm, masturbation can help you a great deal. Even if you’re not in a relationship, what better way to keep in touch with your sexuality? Either way, masturbation is highly encouraged. Just ask…basically anyone, wink*
You can get an orgasm through clitoral stimulation or through penetration. It will depend on your preferences, so you can go and try both to see what you like the best. These are the experiments worth engaging in, wink*
If you feel like you need something else to masturbate, you can use a dildo or a vibrator. You can use both of these objects to penetrate yourself or to stimulate your clitoris; alternatively you can use a combination of clitoral stimulation and vaginal penetration, because why not?
If you don’t want to use a toy, you can always go solo with your fingers. Some women find the best to just stimulate and penetrate only with the fingers, although you may find you won’t be able to reach too deep with them. If you reach an orgasm through penetration, it will be a vaginal orgasm. If you achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation, it will be a clitoral orgasm.
Start lying on your back, relax, and take some time. Start touching and stimulate your body, think about something that turns you on (remember the most erotic organ is your mind). Help yourself with some lubrication and place the toy or fingers between your legs; use a back and forth motion to penetrate. Discover what rhythm and pressure makes you feel better.
If you want to try clitoral stimulation, lay down with your legs apart and use your hands to touch and caress the labia and clitoris. Opening up the lips to get to the clitoris and using the index finger is usually a big favorite. Moving your finger in circular motion will probably be a good idea; again find the rhythm, pressure and movements that make you reach orgasm.
Take as much time as you like to get you there. If you don’t there the first time, it’s ok. This is a journey of self-discovery and pleasure; there are no wrongs!